Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Today's podcast is a very special Father's Day Tribute for Justin, with some really special messages from his daughters.Justin shares some of his own thoughts about being a father & what he's learnt along the way Parenting isn't about the kids. The product of parenting isn't the kids, it's the parents It really does go too fast You will feel that you can never be enough Showing up is the main game As a parent, you have to a hope builder Dancing is joy The trust they place in you is impossible to live up to Letting go is harder than you can imagine Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How Justin ended up on the back of a paddy wagon His first impression of Kylie What does he know now that he wishes he knew when he had small children Justin's favourite memory of his Dad What is he most grateful for? Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Wally explains how he became a parenting expert Wally talks about his experience with foster parenting Investing time into your family Justin talks about why Wally means so much to him Teach compassion by living compassion Enjoy life with your children Wally talks about his father Follow Wally on FacebookFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ahead of Father's Day this Sunday, Justin and Kylie sat down for a heartwarming interview with Kylie's Dad.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Don't sweat the small stuff. Screen time during lockdowns. The association between adolescent health and screen use. For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie immerse themselves in their mistakes One of the Coulson girls take the family car without permission & Justin responds in a way that surprised everyone Kylie reflects on the accuracy of her memories from childhood For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A listener calls in with her concerns about the children she is a nanny for Lack of connection can result in children acting out Ongoing nurturing connections Emotional regulation Limit setting, structure & clear expectations Children need to have experiences tailored to their individual needs Cultural continuity Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What is the movement The Fatherhood all about? The new generation of Dads Jeremy talks about what's in his new book Is fatherhood what Jeremy expected? How do fathers manage the struggle between work & family? Jeremy's best advice for fathers Learn more about Jeremy MacveanPurchase his book - The Father Hood: Inspiration for the new dad generationFind The Fatherhood on Facebook and InstagramPurchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Lockdown is hard on our kids Toys and games to entertain kids Activity ideas for young kids and big kids Encouragement if you're struggling and stressed For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin and Kylie's principles for being great parents Do the important things first before the 'not so important' things fill up your life. Why you need to get enough sleep! Check out Steven Covey's Big Rocks video here.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Tips for getting through 'the monthly cycle'. Reading recommendations for older kids. Spontaneous family adventures. Check out Justin's reading recommendations: The Keepers Trilogy by Lian Tanner The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S Lewis For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: 01.09 - Smacking Physical punishment consistently predicts increases in child behaviour problems over time Physical punishment is not associated with positive outcomes over time Physical punishment increases the risk of involvement with child protection services The only evidence of children illiciting physical punishment is for externalising behaviour Physical punishment predicts worsening behaviour over time 07.20 Screen usage and reading When do children need to start learning to read? What do screens get in the way of? 10.45 Which country has the most burnt out parents? How do we assess parental burnout? How to minimise and navigate parental burnout? Physical punishment and child outcomes: a narrative review of prospective studiesLongitudinal Associations Between Screen Use and Reading in Preschool-Aged ChildrenParental Burnout Around the Globe: A 42-Country Study International Investigation of Parental BurnoutFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Becau

Topics discussed in this episode: Study stress What causes all of the stress? Stress isn't about having too much to do, it's about how to get it all done Motivation & wellbeing Life balance Tips to help kids get through their exams The obession with 'the number' at the end of year 12 Time management vs scheduled outcomes Command words Unmotivated teens You can get a copy of Katie’s Free Parent Guide:‘The 3 Huge Mistakes (even smart!) Students Make in Exams and Assignments’at www.rocksolidstudy.comAnd check out her free and super-practical video tips at the Grade Transformation blog:www.gradetransformation.com.auPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How to guide an 18 year old while respecting their decisions Minimising the contention at home Having an honest conversation The importance of autonomy Connection Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Important ADHD background information Tips for parenting ADHD children Three basic psychological needs For more information and to register for Justin's ADHD webinar click here.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Jacob Townsend's powerful example of confidence with a stutter Justin's experience with his daughter - connection is the currency of our relationships Kids spell love T-I-M-E Justin and Kylie's experience in guiding their daughter through a breakup For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How we create influence through connection Why trust is so important Asking a simple question like 'what do you think' can empower our kids For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Timestamps for this episode: 00.32 Justin introduces Andrew 00.53 Is it appropriate to say we manage the tricky behaviours of others around us? 01.53 Andrew's acronym R.E.S.O.L.V.E. 02.09 R.espond with respect 02.46 E.ngage 03.35 S.eek understanding 04.39 O.bserve their feelings 05.47 L.ower the tone 07.37 V.alue add 08.17 E.mpower 08.55 Ad break 09.40 How to use the R.E.S.O.L.V.E. model with a tricky toddler 12.23 How to use the R.E.S.O.L.V.E. model with a tricky teenager 15.12 Technology and teens 16.24 Justin's summary 17.46 Andrew's process of forming his model Tricky Behaviours by Andrew FullerFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How toddlers and pre-schoolers are biologically wired Tips and tricks for working parents during lockdowns Change and variety will keep toddlers entertained for longer Read Dr Jenny Chesters' 'Parenting During Lockdown' article here.Read Dr Jenny Chesters' full report on 'Life Satisfaction During the 2020 Pandemic in Australia' here.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin has been thoroughly enjoying watching the Olympics The sexism on display when the Norwegian Beach Handball Team chose to compete in shorts instead of bikini bottoms How we can encourage our children in any activity without taking it too far Facebook post mentioned#321 I'll Do Better TomorrowFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.