Sinopsis
Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.
Episodios
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Episode 145 - Re-release
22/11/2024 Duración: 21minEpisode 85 was titled Insecurity and Comparisons and was about being worried about having feelings about your partner interacting with pictures of others. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Our discussion question this week came from the Odder Being Polyamory Conversation Cards. Pick up your own copy using my affiliate link and use NONMONOHELP at checkout for 10% off. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 144 - Polyamory FOMO
08/11/2024 Duración: 34minWhat happens when you start off polyamory liking it but start feeling resentful towards your partner when they go on dates? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Our discussion question this week came from the Odder Being Polyamory Conversation Cards. Pick up your own copy using my affiliate link and use NONMONOHELP at checkout for 10% off. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 143 - Experienced But Anxious
25/10/2024 Duración: 31minWhat happens when you feel incredibly anxious about any new partner your partner has even though you are very experienced in polyamory? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Our discussion question this week came from the Odder Being Polyamory Conversation Cards. Pick up your own copy using my affiliate link and use NONMONOHELP at checkout for 10% off. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 142 - Finding New Partners
11/10/2024 Duración: 18minYou want your partner to be more supportive in helping you find more partners or being a better wingman because you’re struggling to find new partners in an open marriage. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Check out Chill Polyamory's new podcast "I Could Never..." on Spotify and wherever you get your podcasts. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 141 - Making Amends
27/09/2024 Duración: 24minEverybody messes up in relationships but making amends isn’t always a one sided action. You have to work together to rebuild trust. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Check out Chill Polyamory's new podcast "I Could Never..." on Spotify and wherever you get your podcasts. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 140 - Q&A
06/09/2024 Duración: 31minQuestions for this week's Q&A episode include: How do I address friends who don't ask about or invite your partner to things? Friends who say they are supportive but only talk about that partner if you bring them up. How do I find out what I actually feel when my spouse is out with others? What do you do if you're feeling burnt out by emotional conversations? My partner is always recommending stuff to me that was recommended to him by a metamour. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Check out Chill Polyamory's new podcast "I Could Never..." on Spotify and wherever you get your podcasts. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jo
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Episode 139 - Boundaries vs. Rules
23/08/2024 Duración: 27minIf you frequently don’t follow your boundaries with action, your brain could respond with anxiety because of the self-sabotage. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Check out Chill Polyamory's new podcast "I Could Never..." on Spotify and wherever you get your podcasts. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 138 - Conflicting Routines
09/08/2024 Duración: 21minTrying to work out intentional time together when life circumstances and sleep schedules get in the way without taking it personally can be a challenge. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Check out Chill Polyamory's new podcast "I Could Never..." on Spotify and wherever you get your podcasts. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 137 - Meta's Fault
26/07/2024 Duración: 20minYour partner is making decisions about your relationship based off of your metamour’s feelings and resentment is building. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Looking for a great way to connect with a partner? Try the Paired app. Get 25% off and a 7 day free trial by using my Paired link. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 136 - Long Distance Sharing
12/07/2024 Duración: 22minIf you don’t want any other partners sharing your bed, is this jealousy or just a reasonable boundary? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
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Episode 135 - Long Distance Avoidance
28/06/2024 Duración: 20minYou’ve done all the studying but still can’t shake the negative feelings when your partner dates others and you think you may be monogamous by nature. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 134 - Polyamory and Trauma
14/06/2024 Duración: 31minSeeing yourself as “traumatised” may actually be causing yourself more stress and difficulty than if you allowed yourself the permission to feel. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 133 - Pressure to Open
31/05/2024 Duración: 26minComing at a crossroads in your relationship with compatibility can make you feel a pressure to open your relationship, but rethinking that might help. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 132 - Mind Reading
17/05/2024 Duración: 26minIf you feel too uncomfortable to ask for what you want from your partner then holding resentment towards them for not meeting your needs may not be fair. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 131 - Cheating Introduction
03/05/2024 Duración: 24minCan you move from cheating to a “successful” polyamorous relationship and what needs to happen? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 130 - Deprioritised
12/04/2024 Duración: 26minIf you know you’re being deprioritised and you just feel you can’t leave, can you actually make it work. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 129 - Struggling to Be Together
29/03/2024 Duración: 18minYou can’t live your life only making decisions based on what will or won’t disappoint other adults. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 128: Stopping Emotions
08/03/2024 Duración: 18minIs there really a way to stop your emotions in their tracks or fully control them especially if you’re in a difficult housing situation? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 127: Polyamory for Straight Dudes
01/03/2024 Duración: 13minGiving my best recap of what straight men might face when it comes to the lifestyle of polyamory. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 126: Living With Partners
16/02/2024 Duración: 20minLiving with people is already hard but living with a new partner and a metamour you don’t have a connection with can add to the challenge. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message