The Empowered Parent Podcast

Chris and Ryan are without Kayla for this episode again and pick up where they left off talking about the power of being present with our kids. They share some practical things they have done in their families too. Resources Mentioned in this Episode BUILD: Creating a Foundation of Connection Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris and Ryan are without Kayla for this episode and they discuss the importance of being present and available for our kids. The boys share from their experiences as dads, they focus on the 5 Household Dysfunction ACES, and share why we need to maximize our time with our kids.  Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan are joined by their good friend Allison Highton for this special Mother's Day episode. They discuss the joy and struggles for moms and their kids and how their expectations of the day have changed over the years. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan pick up where they left off in the previous episode (Getting the Relationship Back on Track) and discuss how we can repair after rupture. They offer why it is important to make things right between us and our children and remind us of the important things to remember when trying to make things right. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan tackle a potentially difficult topic in this episode, repairing your mistakes with your kids. They discuss how apologizing and seeking forgiveness is a wonderful relationship tool as well as a great way to teach how to take responsibility for words and actions. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Following up on Episode 7 of this season, Chris gets practical and discusses strategies for managing transitions and meltdowns with Ryan and Kayla. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris, Kayla, and Ryan are joined by a very special guest for this episode, our very own Dallas Stacy. He is usually happiest producing, but we asked him to join us on the air to talk about recently becoming a dad.  Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris, Ryan, and Kayla the difficulties our kids experience with transitions. But they don't leave you hanging, they also share ideas to empower you to manage those transitions well.  Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

In our previous episode, Chris, Kayla, and Ryan discussed Challenging Behaviors. In this episode, they discuss how we can proactively build skills in our children to help them when they are struggling. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

In this episode, Ryan, Kayla, and Chris discuss challenging behaviors. How do we figure out what our kids are trying to communicate to us? What part of the interaction stems from our own triggers, and how can we respond well? Mentioned in this episode The Whole-Brain Child BUILD: Creating a Foundation of Connection Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

In this episode, Ryan and Kayla discuss Jude Cassidy's Hallmarks of Secure Attachment and provide some practical tips to help you work on attachment with your kids. Resources mentioned in this episode The Strange Situation [watch video] The Power of Showing Up [buy book] Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Chris is back and in this episode, he discusses The Basics of Attachment with Ryan and Kayla. They talk about the stages of regulation, the cycle of attachment, and how our kids were likely to have missed these necessary stages of development. Also, Kayla shares how she has been a bad influence on Ryan Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Ryan and Kayla are without Chris for this one where they discuss a foundational idea in trauma-informed care, felt-safety. They discuss the differences between being safe and feeling safe, and share a few strategies to help you create an environment where your kids feel safe. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

To start out the new year Ryan, Kayla, and Chris are getting back to the basics. In this episode they breakdown what trauma really is. From in utero trauma to various forms of abuse they break down the effects it can have and what you can do as a parent to help your kids through it.  Mentioned in this episode Adverse Childhood Experiences Study (ACES) [CLICK HERE to take the ACE Assessment] BUILD: Creating a Foundation of Connection [CLICK HERE to learn more about BUILD] Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Produced by Dallas Stacy

Ryan, Kayla, and Chris are back for part two of Help For The Holidays. In this episode, they focus on the importance of setting expectations for your families and for your kids. They discuss being mindful of the desires of others, while also setting important boundaries for your family as things may look entirely different this holiday season. They also end this episode with an important debate, the merits of a fanny pack.   Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy

Christmas time is here and Ryan, Kayla, and Chris reflect on holidays past while also looking ahead to this year. They encourage parents to not be afraid of changing things up this year to accommodate these unique times. They also share some tips to stay in charge of your emotional state during the holidays as they can create some stressful and emotional situations. Become a patron of the Empowered Parent Podcast We love that we can play a part in bringing hope, encouragement, and healing to families across the world. We are so thankful for the people who have poured into us so we could pour into others. Would you consider supporting our ongoing work by becoming a patron of our podcast? One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy

In another episode of "Give Me an Example!" Ryan, Kayla, and Chris talk about compromises. Compromises, as opposed to bribes, can be such a powerful tool in our homes. It can be a difficult and confusing tool to employ. When used correctly parents can empower their kids and help to give them a voice.  One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy

For part two of Let's Hear From The Dads, Ryan and Chris dig deeper into moments that impacted them at the start of their connected parenting journey, and how it compares to where they are now. They also discuss how moms can encourage dads and help foster healthy relationships throughout the home.  One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy

After intently discussing how kids can create funny names for grandparents, Chris turns hosting duties over to Kayla for this episode. When it comes to connected parenting, at times the dads may be a bit hesitant. Chris and Ryan share about their early days of being introduced to connected parenting concepts and why it impacted them so much.  One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy

Trauma can have an impact on parents and their children in ways we may not be aware of or expect. Fear can manifest itself in children as something innocent or seemingly harmless. Kayla, Ryan, and Chris talk about how trauma can impact children and how parents can show compassion and care to help love children through it.  One Big Happy Home Web | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Email | Trauma School | Patreon Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy