Sex With Emily

On today’s podcast, Emily answers your most pressing questions about the benefits of masturbation, tips for first time anal sex, and how to deal with the anxiety when you’re with a more experienced lover. May is masturbation month! Make sure you celebrate as often as possible, Emily reviews ways to exercise your PC muscles by doing Kegel exercises (Kegel Camp app will help you) while you masturbate to help you have better sex. You’re really going to get to know yourself this month if you take time to explore your body even more. Having trouble talking to your partner about sex? Emily explains how to start the conversation with your partner so you can ask for what you want in the bedroom and find out what your partner needs. Ready to try something new? Or are you looking for tips on an old favorite? Emily and Anderson of the The Film Vault podcast discuss some great tips on how to successfully enjoy the pleasures of anal sex. Please send all your sex and relationship questions to feedback@sexwithemily.com Also

This week Kelly Shibari, the BBW Performer of the Year and Penthouse Forum’s first-ever plus-size cover model, joins Emily to talk squirting, her secret blowjob tips and the history of Shibari- the ancient Japanese art of rope bondage. Emily interviews this media producer turned groundbreaking porn superstar about what it’s like to be the only plus-sized Fleshlight model, tentacle porn and who her favorite erotica writer is. Learn why Emily loves bondage tape and how having a false eyelash fall off mid-scene taught Kelly about body confidence and what men really crave when they’re watching porn! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Emily and her, Anderson of The Film Vault podcast and technical producer for Loveline, get into mismatched libidos, masturbation and manscaping!   Emily and Anderson discuss exactly what kind of person keeps a “sex list” and whether or not being attractive means you’re bad at giving oral. Emily also talks about why it’s important to have sex as often as possible in a longterm relationship- even if you have to pencil it in.   Emily also lets us in on an unexpected flower delivery from a secret admirer. She loved getting her bouquet of fresh Lilies and Orchids- wanna do the same for someone you care about? Check out The Bouqs and use promo code EMILY for 20% off.   Emily and Anderson give advice to a 24 year old virgin and even talk about Anderson’s first time. Later, they discuss why everyone should try mutual masturbation and Emily reviews the importance of lube with erotic electro stimulation.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily’s guest tonight is comedian Erik Griffin from Comedy Central’s show Workaholics.   Emily and Erik talk about the reality of digital dating today. They discuss the art of flirting on the Tinder dating app, sex myths, mismatched libidos and women that “collect men like comic books.” They also debate whether or not sex is the most important thing in a relationship.   The talk about “Friends with Benefits,” relationships,  the importance of communication in bed and the thrill of pleasing your partner. They discuss turning your insecurities into swagger as well as why being hot isn’t all that matters when you’re looking for the perfect partner!   Emily and Erik answer emails from listeners and give advice to a woman who has trouble orgasming during sex and hilariously reveal why communication is the ultimate lubrication! Emily gives Erik advice on how to get one step closer to getting the perfect blowjob (apparently he hasn’t one yet) and even motivates him to adjust his Tinder settings. Dating a bit older m

Emily’s guest is Lisa Ann, the most popular porn star in the world 2 years in a row according to the New York Post. Why is she so famous? You might recognize her as the star of the hit porn parody, Nailin’ Palin or because she’s been voted the hottest MILF porn star and the #1 Fleshlight by AVN. They discuss why the MILF trend is so popular, how secret trick for mentally preparing for porn scenes and her own psychology for dating. Lisa Ann gives her top tips for performing oral sex on a man and a woman and answers sex questions from callers including how to go about anal for the first time, how do deal with a large penis, her favorite sex toys, the craziest place she's had sex and how it feels to get her ass licked.  Also, can porn help couples? Listen in for all the amazing tricks and tips. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tonight on the Sex WIth Emily show former pornstar and best-selling author Shy Love, gives her best oral sex tips for men and women, shares the ingredients for a successful marriage and offers some interesting tactics on how to approach women including the “casual pick-up.” Emily also gets the ex-pornstar to reveal what good sex really is and the real importance of foreplay. Then the esteemed Dr. Lawrence Levine,  a lead contributor to the study of male sexual dysfunction,  joins the show to talk about premature ejaculation, a condition gaining spotlight as it’s three times more common than erectile dysfunction. Dr. Levine shares some amazing breakthroughs in science for men with want to last longer in bed. Emily offers suggestions for women on how talk to their partners about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction as many men have a hard time improving sexual performance on their own. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily answers emails from listeners with topics including: sexy vs. slutty, friend zoning, Kegel exercises and fetishes.  Menace grills Emily for slacking on pop culture. Emily breaks down what Gwyneth Paltrow meant when she described her split as "conscious uncoupling". Menace questions the audience on dealing with dating celebrities and their famous Ex's. Emily recaps her live, in-studio date from the popular dating app Tinder. Emily confesses how she avoids talking about sex on the first date and the question, "What do you do for a living?". In sex in the news, a mother in Japan dresses as Mickey Mouse to find son a wife. In fashion, Menace questions Emily how far she would go for a loved one. The strapping gentlemen from Thunder From Down Under thwart an armed criminal in their dressing room. In listener emails, a young girl questions what a slut is and how Emily Nicedefines the beauty in sex and opens the floor for the duo to discuss what they find sexy, slutty and enduring in partners. Another newly div

In this episode, Emily breaks down Dealbreakers, what they are and how to avoid them. Emily and Menace catch up starting with sharing their stories from Las Vegas in anticipation for Emily's upcoming sex toy show. Emily's listeners rave about the Fleshlight - yes there are amazing sex toys for guys. In sex in the news, a golf tee in butt stunt goes wrong for a playboy model. A new walk of shame kit saves women from humiliation from the stride of pride or maybe sets a man up to deal with those rough "morning afters". A listener writes to Emily with crippling pain during sex which could spurn from anti-depressants. Another listener's wife is completely uncomfortable discussing sex or her low libido regardless of the man's extensive efforts. The duo get into the show topic Dealbreakers: the fatal flaw. What are common deal breakers people experience everyday? What really should be considered dealbreakers? Emily talks about supposed dealbreakers that can actually be resolved. Emily and Menace discuss the type of

Her first interview in 3 years, award-winning pornstar, Jenna Haze comes into the studio to give you an inside look on the makings of the porn legend. Emily gets into the past and personal parts of Jenna's life. Jenna tells the story of how she lost her virginity. Have you ever wanted to experience Jenna? Fleshlight molded Jenna's intimate parts and Jenna's excited to share it with you! Emily and Jenna take calls from listeners asking about what Jenna's up to now, Jenna's new website, how to get your girl into getting oral, how she kept up relationships while doing porn, what Jenna considers great sex. Jenna talks about what working in porn is like when the camera's not rolling. How to give a woman give oral is explored and Jenna gives her personal tips. Jenna gets into the details of how she gives her best blowjob and how she keeps things interesting in relationships.  Listen to the show to find out how to win Jenna's famous Fleshlight! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We've all been placed in the dreaded "Friend Zone',  but consider this your last time. This weeks show is about how to get out of the Friend Zone, because let's face it, you'd rather be lovers than BFF's. Emily and Menace give tips about how to create distance, confidence and how to let her or him know that it's a date not a hang out. Menace talks about his time spent in the friend zone and how he got out of it. Emily and Menace don't miss San Francisco that much, and the share the perks and pitfalls of their nee Los Angeles location. They update the sex in the news with topics about Robin Thick and T.I.'s marriage scandals, "The Real Housewives" criminal charges, what happens when you sue your prostitute, how "Teen Mom" is a great birth control for the younger generation, and the real dangers of having a cellphone (and the rules Menace has to protect himself). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily's been spotted on the popular Tinder dating app. The app is all the rage as you swipe left of right to "like" or "reject" a prospect. If they like you too, it's a match. Some call it 'the hook up' app and yet others have found true love.  Too busy with work, yet always with her iPhone Emily joins the app and brings in her Tinder date to the studio for the first live date ever during the podcast. Anderson comes up with a code phrase in case the date's a bust. Her date, "Chad", isn't afraid to get into his past, voice his opinion (about everything....) and give Emily a hard time. The two get into marriage, why relationships fail and sex as you age. Chad reveals secrets about his past and Emily shares her dating patterns. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Menace is Back! Emily and Menace are back together in the studio and happy to be in Los Angeles. Emily answers listener emails including questions regarding mismatched libidos - what to do when your partner wants more sex than you, a man who has trouble with older women, and trying to speed up the pace of a relationship- good or bad idea? Tinder is the dating app (some say it's a hook-up app) and Emily has been spotted on it! They talk about the rules of the explosive new app. Menace opens up about his secret 3 year relationship and claims Emily knew her once upon a time... Emily and Menace talk about kids and marriage. Menace has something stuck in his penis and the hospital has to take it out (Get ready to cringe!).  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

English professor turned gay pornstar, Conor Habib, visits the Sex With Emily show to celebrate Steak and Blow Job Day with tips on how to give the best blow job and overall insights on how to be a great lover. Conor tells us about his first gay experience on and off set. They talk about the rise in anal sex in college co eds. Conor talks about his petition against censorship in the popular app Vine (is Twitter next?). The scientfic hoax behind masterbation shame is revealed.  Conor interjects in the circumsised debate by describing how he's got "the best of both worlds". The duo wraps up with Los Angeles  vs. San Francisco dating scenes and the biggest (and surprising!) drug found on porn sets. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you're still figuring out how to flirt, you're not alone. WingGirl Marni Kinrys and Comedian Kristen Carney from the Ask Women Podcast join me on this podcast episode to breakdown the art of flirting. Marni is a professional wing girl- she teaches men how to flirt and start successful relationships. She reveals secrets from her Wing Girl Method, which will make women want you.  Kristen is a professional sketch comedienne, actress and host whose work has apperead on Comedy Central, Funny or Die, TLC and her new YouTube channel: See You Next Tues Comedy. So many men fall into the dreaded "Friend Zone" because they're nervous and will agree with everything women say instead of setting themselves apart as an interesting person. Don't be afraid to challenge women's viewpoints. Speak up when you have an opinion. After all, it's not called witty banter for nothing. Most women truly value personality more than looks. A conventionally unattractive man can become sexy with a great personality and confidence. You'll

Today, we fast-forward to the good parts with Mr. Skin! Mr. Skin came into inform you about the best of the best from the 15th annual Anatomy Awards. We talk about 1930s porn, why we love naked celebs, what makes a good sex scene, and the best nude scenes to look forward to in 2014. We find out which unexpected American sweetheart won the best nip slip of 2013 and the best lesbian scene you've ever seen. We close our session together with talk of faux clam in film, the best "back burger", monster muff and of course, long nipples. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings. Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you attract women? You have less than 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be this way. It's not just something you're born with. If you didn't come out of the womb a complete stud you can still learn how to attract women. If you want to know exactly what to say, check out this free video of Jason demonstrating his deadliest pick-up line. And no, it’s not cheesy. No one one falls from heaven in it, I promise.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I'm talking about my favorite topic- masturbation and the best sex toys for men and women. In a word filled with crazy, awesome, vibrating sex toys, it can be hard to choose a sex toy. Are you a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl or a G-spot gal? Are you a size queen or are you looking for something cute and discreet? Do you want a couples toy or do you want it all to yourself? Of course, sex toys aren't just for the girls (check out the Fleshlight guys at sexwithemily.com/Fleshlight!). My guest, Sex Toy Expert Anne Hodder, and I discuss some surprising ways men enjoy the vibrations too, and how they can use sex toys on their partner. My guest Anne Hodder and I have tried and reviewed hundreds of sex toys so we can tell you the best sex toys for your preferences and needs. Your welcome. I do it all for you... and the orgasms.  You can get almost all the vibrators we discuss on the show at  Anne and I agree that one of the best vibrators for couple play and solo play is the Je Joue MiMi, and the best sex toy

Porn Star Skin Diamond dishes about having sex like a porn star... and having sex like a cat. You'll have to listen to the show to hear about her sexual kitty play. Skin Diamond grew up in Scotland with a passion for Christianity and a huge crush on Jessica Rabbit. Although she no longer believes in organized religion, her love for the female form developed beyond cartoons. Skin Diamond identifies as bisexual and has a rare ability to orgasm on command (perfect for porn!). Skin Diamond proves that not all orgasms in porn are fake.  She explains how she orgasms by doing Kegels exercises and how to make your orgasms even stronger by changing the way you breathe.  After she satisfies all your orgasmic needs, she doubles the fun with a lively discussion on double penetration (DP). Last but not least, Skin Diamond tells you how to handle a gigantic penis.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY fo

People say that Friend’s With Benefits (FWB) never work, but that's simply not true. You might just be the perfect candidate for a Friends With Benefits situation if you're at the right place in your life to have unabashed, no strings attached sex. I'll tell if you can handle a Friends with Benefits and how to get one. Hint: It doesn't actually have to be someone you're good friends with. Sometimes it's better to turn a sexy acquaintance into your FWB.  It's important to realize Friends With Benefits don’t last forever and in some ways are too good to be true:  the perks of consistent sex in a relationship without the relationship drama. One person usually becomes more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other person. If you do want to have a Friends With Benefits relationship I'll tell you the rules you have to play by.I also cover the most awkward moments between the sheets and what to do when they happen. And speaking of awkward times and nocturnal emissions, is it okay to hook up with an old