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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2326: Kalen Bruce explains how the key to long-term success and growth, for both adults and children, lies in the small actions taken each day. By emphasizing the importance of building habits through daily, intentional choices, he offers guidance on how to fight procrastination and instill a habit of action in kids. Bruce highlights the value of teaching children discipline early, so they can develop positive habits that shape their future. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://freedomsprout.com/action-habit/ Quotes to ponder: "Everything you do matters. Some things more than others, but everything has a consequence." "A habit of action is built over time, slowly, easily, and naturally." "Motivation is fleeting. Habits depend on action, and action is built out of discipline." Episode references: Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://james

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2325: In a transcendent meditation, Bradley Charbonneau recounts a profound conversation with his late father, who shares a beautiful lesson on the boundless nature of love. Through humorous math analogies and heartfelt advice, the message becomes clear: love is infinite, and even when we think we've given all we can, there’s always more to give. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://passthesourcream.com/math-homework-from-heaven/ Quotes to ponder: "You can rain down love on your family." "When you’ve given them all of the love you can give and don’t think you can give anything else, then give 10 times more." "Love is infinite. Love is infinity." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2324: Dr. Diana Kirschner explores the self-sabotaging dating pattern where women dismiss potential partners over trivial flaws, believing they are "not willing to settle." Instead, she argues, it’s essential to focus on a man’s deeper values, like empathy and personal growth, which are the real foundations for lasting love. She challenges women to give men a fair chance and avoid the perfectionism that often leads to missed opportunities for happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://lovein90days.com/not-willing-settle-love-life/ & http://lovein90days.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-has-soulmate-potential/ Quotes to ponder: "Love often comes in a surprise package." "These complaints have nothing to do with the qualities that make for a partner who can provide lasting love and happiness." "You unconsciously project your own feelings of inade

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2323: Discover how to stop feeling overwhelmed by jealousy in your relationship with practical tips to shift your mindset and build trust. This insightful guide explores why jealousy happens and how to regain control of your emotions, enhancing both self-awareness and communication with your partner. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://selflovejunkie.com/stop-feeling-crazy-jealous-relationship/ Quotes to ponder: "Jealousy often springs from insecurity and fear, not from actual threats." "Building trust starts from within; it’s about strengthening your belief in yourself first, then your partner." "Communication is your strongest ally against jealousy - learn to express your emotions clearly and openly." Episode references: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love: https://www.amazon.com

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2322: Evan Marc Katz explores the prevalence of lying in online dating, shedding light on why people misrepresent themselves on their profiles. He explains that while lying isn’t morally defensible, it often stems from insecurity and a belief that honesty will prevent them from securing a chance at love. Katz empathizes with both the liars and the victims, noting that, in most cases, these lies are an effort to get noticed in a highly competitive environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/online-dating-tips-advice/how-much-lying-is-acceptable-online-2 Quotes to ponder: "People, for the most part, don’t lie because they’re bad folks who can’t tell the difference between right and wrong; they’re just insecure that telling the truth will eliminate them from contention before they ever get a chance to meet you

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2321: Allowing children to study while distracted by platforms like Facebook may have more damaging consequences than parents realize. Cal Newport argues that this behavior can impair deep focus and long-term academic success, much like how certain behaviors during pregnancy affect development. By creating environments of distraction, parents could be unwittingly rewiring their children's brains, limiting their capacity for concentration in the future. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://calnewport.com/blog/2010/06/10/is-allowing-your-child-to-study-while-on-facebook-morally-equivalent-to-drinking-while-pregnant/ Quotes to ponder: "The dopamine system is not something to mess with! I know professors who can’t go more than a few minutes in a meeting without checking their inbox." "I just told her if she wanted to not be so stressed she sho

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2320: James Altucher opens up about the lies he told both to himself and others in an effort to be liked, from embellishing personal achievements to faking confidence. He reflects on how these fabrications left him feeling unfulfilled and eventually led him to recognize the importance of authenticity and being true to himself, which ultimately brought him peace and real happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://jamesaltucher.com/blog/lies-we-tell-ourselves-to-be-liked/ Quotes to ponder: "I needed to somehow be someone I wasn’t in order to burn away invisible scars that I was sure everyone could see." "In order to be around good people, I also had to be a good person, not an imaginary one." "Better to use that fuel for being happy and good now than to make up futures and anxieties and regrets." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2319: Angel Chernoff highlights the importance of perspective when grappling with forgiveness. Through a heartfelt anecdote, she reveals that sometimes, the real issue lies in our perception, not the actions of others. By accepting imperfections and embracing compassion, we can free ourselves from the unnecessary burden of forgiveness. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.marcandangel.com/2018/10/28/should-i-forgive-him-should-i-forgive-her/ Quotes to ponder: "Sometimes the only problem standing in our way is the one we created in our head." "Letting go of the need to forgive every misstep and mistake a person makes can be mentally and emotionally freeing for everyone involved." "Because mistakes are the growing pains of wisdom, and sometimes they just need to be accepted with no strings attached." Episode references: Getting Back to H

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2318: Ross Enamait challenges the notion that fatherhood inevitably leads to weight gain, dismissing the popular “dad bod” trend. He argues that being a parent should never be an excuse for neglecting personal health, emphasizing the importance of leading by example for the benefit of one’s children. Through his personal experiences, Enamait shows how maintaining a strong and active lifestyle can enhance fatherhood, not hinder it. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://rosstraining.com/blog/2015/07/27/fatherhood-does-not-make-you-fat/ Quotes to ponder: "Fathers don’t suddenly become fat because of children. Weight is gained due to excess food and drink consumption and/or lack of physical activity." "Prioritizing your health is not selfish. On the contrary, it is something that all parents should do to set a positive example for their childre

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2317: Shawna Scafe explores the concept of intentional parenting, contrasting it with the autopilot mode many parents often fall into. She emphasizes the importance of modeling the behavior and values we wish to instill in our children, focusing on mindfulness and deliberate choices in daily parenting. By setting clear goals for the kind of adults we want our kids to become, we can take meaningful steps toward raising them with purpose and intention. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/starting-intentional-parenting/ Quotes to ponder: "Unless we are raising cheese-eating, floor-sweeping, laughing women who randomly break into song, let’s hope they pick up some more useful traits from their father and the people we surround ourselves with." "Like Lisa and her husband, making their kids travel companions for a life-chang

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2316: Keith Wilson explores how relationships endure even after love fades, emphasizing that emotional ties remain long after separation. He illustrates how former partners often need to re-negotiate their relationship dynamics, especially when kids or shared responsibilities are involved, offering valuable insights into how to maintain a functional, if altered, connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2018/01/05/the-re-negotiated-relationship/ Quotes to ponder: "You’ll never be indifferent about a former partner, no matter how hard you try to fake it." "These can be very satisfying and valuable relationships, nonetheless, for both of you and, especially, for the kids." "Love may not be eternal, but relationship is." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2315: Colin Wright explores the challenges of being an independent individual in a world designed for pairs and families. He highlights the shift in relationship norms, especially among Millennials, who reject traditional life paths in favor of personal fulfillment and diverse, modern relationship models. This evolution, he argues, should be embraced as it allows for more authentic, custom-fitted lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exilelifestyle.com/missed-connections/ Quotes to ponder: "There are no wrong steps in this dance, and even if we sometimes feel that we’re in the middle of a competition there are plenty of other yardsticks by which we can measure our own, independent growth and progression." "It’s not scary, it’s wonderful. It will result in a greater number of happy people enjoying custom-fitted lives, rather than the

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2314: Colin Wright reflects on the complexities of being single in a place like Boracay, where relationships are central to the culture. As he contemplates his own non-traditional relationship model and the benefits of solitude, he touches on the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. His introspection is fueled by the desire to break away from societal norms and focus on what truly brings fulfillment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exilelifestyle.com/missed-connections/ Quotes to ponder: "I keep stringent tabs on my state of mind, my habits, my purpose. These are things I allowed to gather cobwebs for a significant chunk of my teens and twenties." "Sometimes I say, 'No, let’s just focus on me for a while.'" "Why would you fight to propagate something that isn’t helping you get where you want to be, and that isn’t allowin

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2313: After experiencing a devastating breakup, Eddie Corbano outlines three pivotal steps to achieve emotional freedom. His journey highlights the importance of breaking all contact with an ex, accepting the finality of the relationship, and consciously letting go. By navigating through these stages, you can emerge stronger, rediscover your own happiness, and find a new beginning. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/crucial-steps/ Quotes to ponder: "Burning bridges behind you is understandable. It's the bridges before us that we burn, not realizing we may need to cross, that brings regret." "I decided that I would use this breakup experience as a catalyst to change who I was and thus, my life’s journey." "Letting go is breaking the self-limiting belief that this one person holds the key to your happiness and that you cann

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2312: Crystal Karges explores the challenges of maintaining a positive relationship with food when a spouse's eating habits are triggering. She offers practical strategies, such as setting boundaries and seeking support, to help individuals navigate the dieting behaviors of loved ones while staying committed to their personal recovery journey. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/what-if-my-spouses-eating-habits-are-triggering-to-me Quotes to ponder: "Ultimately, your motivation factors are stronger than a trigger." "Establishing healthy boundaries with your spouse is essential to not only your relationship but to your journey toward finding peace with food and your body." "A trigger can feel overwhelming in the moment, but remember to fall back on your positive coping skills to help you work through a challengi

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2311: Pursuing personal goals with single-minded focus can lead to an unintended consequence: neglecting your relationships. Dr. Gwendolyn Seidman explains how the mindset we adopt when chasing goals can make us more one-sided, not just about the goal itself, but in how we view and maintain our relationships. By becoming aware of this, we can better balance our personal ambitions with nurturing healthy connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/when-whats-good-for-me-isnt-good-for-us/ Quotes to ponder: "Once you’ve committed to the decision to take the job, you’re no longer weighing the pros and cons, but instead figuring out how to break the news to your current boss." "The implemental mindset may make you consider everything, not just that goal, in a one-sided manner." "When pursuing a relationship goal, personal go

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2310: Cara Harvey emphasizes the importance of self-care for moms, highlighting that it's not about indulgence but about sustaining your well-being. She shares practical advice on integrating self-care into a busy day, even if it means finding small moments for yourself. Prioritizing self-care, according to Harvey, is crucial not just for personal happiness but for creating a positive home environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/how-to-fit-self-care-into-your-day/ Quotes to ponder: "We find time to do things that are priorities to us. The things that we think are important are the ones that get done during the day." "We deserve to take some time during the day to center ourselves and do what makes us happy." "I’ve never regretted doing something that I know will make me happier for myself, my family, and my

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2309: Angela Pruess, a seasoned family therapist, shares ten powerful insights for parents to nurture healthy child development. From respecting a child's natural learning process to fostering creativity and connection, these strategies emphasize the importance of understanding, patience, and modeling positive behavior. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/10-insights-of-remarkable-parents-from-a-family-therapist/ Quotes to ponder: "Immature behavior is normal for immature human beings with immature brains." "Kids want and need to be heard, and feel understood. Just like the rest of us." "Recognize that connection, fun, and creativity are the best ways to promote positive behaviors and a cooperative attitude." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2308: Irene Elias offers a compassionate guide to letting go of anger and resentment by embracing forgiveness and understanding. Through a series of actionable steps, she encourages self-reflection, emotional release, and empathy, helping you find inner peace and reclaim your energy from negative emotions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://selflovejunkie.com/how-to-let-go-of-anger-when-youve-been-hurt/ Quotes to ponder: "Look at forgiveness this way, you agree with yourself that you are no longer willing to carry around pain in response to someone else’s bad behavior." "Just imagine with empathy. Visualize that this person has a 5-year-old child within them who are wounded and in need of desperate love." "Every relationship we encounter, friendship, romantic, relative etc, our hearts get connected by an energetic cord and we need to be

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2307: Evan Marc Katz explores the disconnect between dating advice and real-life relationship experiences, emphasizing that true intimacy can't be forced in a relationship that lacks natural chemistry and connection. He advises that if a relationship fails to make you happy or fulfill your emotional needs, it's better to seek someone who genuinely aligns with your values and communication style. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-do-you-put-intimacy-into-an-intimate-relationship Quotes to ponder: "It’s not your job to ‘put intimacy’ into an intimate relationship; it’s your job to find a guy who organically does the things that your co-workers do." "The reason to exit your relationship swiftly is because it does not make you happy." "Good relationships should be easy, but that doesn’t mean